Why Constantly Saying “Yes” Might Be Quietly Destroying You
self-neglect hidden underneath a nice personality 🧎♀️➡️
---
When your soul keeps saying “No”…
but your mouth keeps whispering “Yes”…
you die slowly, in pieces.
People-pleasing isn’t kindness.
It’s self-erasure.
It’s offering your spine to be bent just so no one frowns.
And worst of all?
You don’t even get love in return.
You get expectations.
You get roles to perform, not a heart to rest in.
🌿 The truth?
Saying “Yes” to everyone is often saying “No” to yourself.
And eventually, the one you lose…
is you.
I could bot have worded this any better😭🙂↕️
When you say no to something, you're saying yes to the things that matter.
self-neglect hidden underneath a nice personality 🧎♀️➡️
---
When your soul keeps saying “No”…
but your mouth keeps whispering “Yes”…
you die slowly, in pieces.
People-pleasing isn’t kindness.
It’s self-erasure.
It’s offering your spine to be bent just so no one frowns.
And worst of all?
You don’t even get love in return.
You get expectations.
You get roles to perform, not a heart to rest in.
🌿 The truth?
Saying “Yes” to everyone is often saying “No” to yourself.
And eventually, the one you lose…
is you.
I could bot have worded this any better😭🙂↕️
When you say no to something, you're saying yes to the things that matter.